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When you get a call for a gig, do you take whatever comes your way, or do you have a method to eliminate the ones that will lead to frustration and regret?

It’s not always easy, and sometimes even what looks like a good gig can turn sour, but, the following tips will help you think things through and keep trouble at bay.

1. Does it have the three building blocks of a good gig?

  • Good Music: Good is relative to you and your tastes, of course. I just mean it has to feel good to YOU. If you don’t enjoy what your playing, it will likely show through in how you play your instrument and in your attitude. I’m not saying you have to love it, but, you will likely smile more and perform much better if you are having fun playing music you enjoy. If people see you doing that, you’ll get called for more work.
  • Good Pay: Money isn’t everything, but, you have to support you and yours. To help me decide how well the gig actually pays, I do “The Math.” I’ll go into that in a bit.
  • Good People: In many ways, this is the most important one. You’d be surprised at what trials you can go through if you have fun, responsible, creative, positive people around you.

2. Will it stretch you?

If you do the same things you’ve always done, you won’t be as versatile and complete as you could be. NEW is your friend. Do new things as much as you can. And, I’m not talking about new comfortable things, anyone can do that, I mean new things that scare you. Things that test your limits and take you out of your comfort zone. Things that challenge you to grow.

When a gig comes along that will push you further than you’ve been before and challenge your mind and musical ability, consider taking it.

3. Will it get you into a new circle of people?

  • To be successful in music, you need people. And, the more you know, the better. Knowing more people in the industry means there are more fishing lines out in the water waiting for a bite. You’ll stay more busy.
  • You never know which opportunity will be the one that brings you to a whole other level in your career. Don’t rely on “luck.” Play with, and in front of, as many people as you can. I believe if you are truly great at what you do, and a growing number of people in the industry continually see you working hard and doing what’s best for the music and the people around you, success will follow.
  • There’s so much to learn from others musically, in business, and in life. By working with an ever increasing number of new musicians, artists, songwriters, and producers, you will broaden your horizons, add to your musical arsenal, and be able to bring more to the table in the future.

4. Do the Math.

Here’s a simple formula to help you see how much you’re actually making per hour on a gig:

Pay – expenses ÷ hours spent = hourly pay.

Once I started thinking in this way, I started turning down lots of work. Let’s take a look at how this works:

Let’s say someone calls me up and asks if I can play 10 songs for an hour-long show with one rehearsal on a separate day for $125. That kind of sounds reasonable, right? Let’s run the math…

  • Pay. $125.
  • Minus expenses. $15 gas to rehearsal, $15 gas to gig = $30
  • Divided by hours spent. This is where you make a guess based on similar work. I’ll say 4 hours practicing and charting at home, 3 for band rehearsal, and 3 at the gig for load-in, sound check, and showtime. 10 hours total.
  • Gives us this: $125 – 30 ÷ 10 = $9.50 per hour.

That’s not enough money for me to live on. And, that doesn’t even include any money I may have to pay for parking or food at the gig!

This equation is not meant to disappoint you or keep your focus on money. I still take gigs that may not pay as well as I’d like, but, that will stretch me, help me meet new people, help out friends, and benefit me in other ways.

“Doing the Math” is merely meant to help you think about what you do as a business so you can better evaluate the work that comes in and think about the future. You want to start setting things up now so that, 20 years from now, you’re not still making $9.50 an hour.

5. Saying yes to one thing means saying no to something else.

We all have limited time. And, we have to be very careful how we spend it.

I recently heard Seth Godin say “no is the foundation yes is built on.”

Let that sink in a moment…

That’s a whole new way to look at things, isn’t it?

I have trouble saying no. If I say no, I can feel as if I’m letting someone down and not being helpful or maybe I’m missing an opportunity. But, if I look at saying “no” as the path to better fulfilling what I want to say “yes” to, it becomes easier.

Before taking a gig, think about all the commitments you have on your plate. Will saying yes to a new gig or job keep you from doing your best for a previous commitment?

Final Thoughts

Of course, there are many other things to consider that I haven’t listed. And, ultimately, everyone’s situation is different and you have to do what’s best for you.

I hope this gets you thinking and helps you choose work that fulfills your hopes and dreams. :0)

What does a good gig look like to you? Do have any stories of a gig gone wrong? Let me know in the comments below.

Getting Past Fear of “No”

February 19, 2014 — 1 Comment

I read an interesting post by Jeff Goins today.

As I read, two things hit me:

  1. Out of fear and lack of confidence, people will decide that they will be rejected before they even ask for something.
  2. If you’re not being rejected regularly, you’re not stepping out. If you’re not stepping out, you’re not living up to your potential.

I’ve been doing better at stepping out lately

  • A year ago, I did a 30-day music challenge and put out imperfect songs for all the world to hear.
  • I started a podcast in December 2013.
  • I’ve connected with a lot of new people in the music industry.
  • I’ve been more transparent with people.
  • I contacted people who had no idea who I was, pointed out a need they had, and filled the need.

I still have quite a ways to go, but, I’ve started the ball rolling and I’m gaining confidence in myself.

It’s funny how the things that are uncomfortable, inconvenient, and painful – the things I don’t want to do or go through – are the very things I need to grow.

What hit me between the eyes

Jeff said this in his post:

Whether you’re applying for a job or asking someone out, you begin by assuming the answer is “no.” You lower your expectations. So that if the person does happen to say “yes” (which you know they won’t), you’re elated.

This is stupid and cowardly. But for some reason, we do it all the time. We shoot ourselves down before someone else can.

We call it humility. But really, it’s fear.

We’re afraid of getting “shut down,” so we do it to ourselves. We do it so that someone else doesn’t have to. We begin with an apology or a you-don’t-have-to-clause. We say “no” long before we have to hear it.

That way, when the person does reject us, it’s no great disappointment. We were expecting it, after all. This is ludicrous, of course, but somehow we think we’re doing the person a favor by giving them an “out.”

Dealing with it

Man. I do that all the time. I just never thought about it that way.

I often give people an “out” when asking about them something because I feel it’s “polite.” And, of course I don’t want to be rude and make demands, but, now I see that a lot of my “humility” and “manners” were, deep down, rooted in fear of getting a “no.”

I often begin to ask for something with “this probably won’t work, but…” or “I know you probably won’t have the time, but…”

So, what should I do?

I’ve decided, rather than “kind-of-sorta” asking for something, expecting a “no” and, if they do say yes, hoping people don’t get “put out” too much, I’m going to invite others to be a part of the cool stuff I’m working on.

You see the difference in the mental attitude?

When I invite someone, it involves getting together to do something that benefits us both. I don’t have to feel afraid that I’m inconveniencing someone. We’re in it together to create something better than we could on our own.

Why should I give in to fear?

I’m going to be confident in what I do and move forward in what I’m passionate about.

It will take practice, but, as long as I’m growing, I’ll succeed.

Who better than you?

You have a gift. You’ve worked hard to sharpen your skills and make it to where you are now.

You may not feel like you have it all together. You may not feel like you’re as good as other people in the industry, but, you have something special. A unique voice no one else has.

Of course you want to constantly develop that voice, practice, read good books, and learn what you can from those further down the road than you.

But, at some point, you have to step out.

“An ounce of action is worth a ton of theory.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

Instead of waiting for others to choose you, choose yourself. Get uncomfortable and make something happen.

How are you going to step out?

Psalm 33:3 MIV - Musicians Inspirational Version

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Psalm 33:3 MIV (Musicians Inspirational Version)

“Sing to the Lord a new song,” -Don’t be complacent. Do new things and push past boundaries.

“play skillfully,” – Put in the hard work to know your instrument and music theory. Be prepared so, when it comes time to play, your soul can sing without your mind tripping you up.

“and shout for joy.” Be thankful for your gift. Thankfulness renews passion and passion fuels excellence. And…it’s ok to make some noise. ;0)

 

Mic Podcast Joshua J Lutz

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